One of the scariest things i learn in a relationship is JEALOUSY! It ruins everything! It is a feeling that just tend to stuck in your mind. That is not the worst part, it suck out your senses to which make you go all paranoid and crazy... A very horrible and torturing feeling.
That is what i am going through now. I can't help it. It is so hard to restrain myself from feeling jealous. I know i have no rights from what i have done. But that feeling is just there. I don't want to tell him what to do and what not to do. I don't want to control him. I don't want to turn into one of those crazy freaks girlfriend that go all woo-hoo at their boyfriend. That is not me and never will be me!
So can someone or anyone tell me how???!!! How can i stop feeling this way???? Stop being so paranoid, angry and sad...
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Hey, christine. You got my email right? Erm are u gonna reply?? I would like to hear ur reply u know.. I kow i might not be the best person to give you advise on this coz i am in one problematic relationship myself. But you have to know your bf love you. And you know all this jealousy feeling is not needed as you know he will be faithful to you. So why not go do something else that will make u happy instead of worrying. He will be faithful And you know they are just friends. =). Just my opinion. Your choice to hear or not.
I think the best way to curb all these problems is to confront it.Why not try to settle the problem nicely by telling him how u feel,what you think and how he feels and think about it..sometimes the answer is just in front of your eyes..maybe it is a misunderstanding?
Phoebe,
I am sorry. I did not get your email. If i did, i would have replied. I am not new to the whole jealousy thing either. But sometimes i just tend to lost myself in it. So not to worry because i always find a way to get out again. I do find your advise very useful.
Ok, should i cal u canon or teng??? hmm.... well i doesnt matter. u noe i m talking to you.
We always talk about our problem. Problem might not be solve straight away but it will eventually. As for the reason for writing this post (i noe u never ask but i guess u ought to noe) is bcuz i needed to release my feelings. I needed to write it down or in these case, type it. Everything is fine now. Back to normal. Thanks though for ur concern!
Thank you too, phoebe! ^_^
No worries, i saved a copy. But can i have your email? Guess mag gave the wrong one. =).. Ur welcome. Yeah, we all know you just need some place to let it out. But we write coz we want some place to give advise too. Haha.. XD.. and you're just the right person to receive.. welcome..
oh ya, u dun have my facebook. erm... my email : christine_1808@hotmail.com
Okay.. emailed you.. did u receive?
yup yup! working on d reply.... sorry it will take some time. i m kinda bz lately. exam is coming, and so are all the assignment deadline.
Take your time.. im also having my finals in a two weeks time.. after that.. I'm free!!! Haha.. dont rush.. =)
Haha... yeah! end of semester is really built to kill our brains and physically! hang in thr! i wil reply u as soon as all my assignment is done and my midterm pass.
Okay.. good luck for all the exams and assignments.. =).. and i have a glad news.. We broke up.. i insisted.. Because.. well.. its a long story.. cant tell you here.. dont know why, i feel like a sense of relief.. hmm...
You too! ^_^
I am very sorry to hear that... you just need some time. You would snap back up!
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